methed-up-samurai-is-a-ghost:

speeedylesbian:

Here’s an unpopular opinion that shouldn’t be unpopular: Not wanting sex is a reasonable boundary to set for literally any reason. Be it your trauma, your mental health, your sexuality, or any other factor. Your partners should respect that and they should respect you. This shouldn’t be a debate.

if you don’t want sex, seek out a partner who also doesn’t want sex and establish that shit up front because you’re a fuckin dumbass if you get with someone and guilt trip or patronize them for wanting to have sex with you because 9 times out of 10 sexual attraction is the basis for every relationship.